Monday, December 31, 2007

Mothers, wives upend lives for war wounded

By Michelle Roberts - The Associated Press
Posted : Monday Dec 31, 2007 6:07:00 EST

SAN ANTONIO — Rose Lage swears it is true: Suddenly, in the midst of a fitful night of sleep last June, she knew that her son had been injured in Iraq.

"I heard my son’s voice," she recalls. "It might sound weird, but I heard him holler ‘Mama!"’

In fact, Staff Sgt. Michael Lage was the only survivor of a blast that killed four others. Lage suffered third-degree burns to nearly half his body; part of his nose and ears were missing, and his face, scalp, arms and torso were seared. His left hand had to be amputated.

Rose Lage, 54, understood her son’s life would change. But she didn’t understand how much her own quiet life — a life spent playing with grandkids, fishing and preparing for her husband’s retirement — would change, as well.

She would exchange her two-story house in Atlanta for a hotel room on an Army post, watch her nest egg shrink and spend her days helping a 30-year-old son change bandages and wriggle into garments meant to reduce scarring.

http://www.navytimes.com/news/2007/12/ap_wounded_mothers_071228/